…because if you don’t, neither will she.
Pickup is not normal….but it’s natural. It’s natural to flirt with a pretty chick because you want to sleep with her. But it’s not normal to intentionally go to the mall or main street just to pick up women. If it were normal, then most men would do it. So to be able to pull this off, you have to believe that what you’re doing is right.
As a PUA you have to embrace awkwardness. I’ve had many moments where my approaches were in awkward situations. Like when I opened a chick just as she got off the escalators, and everyone getting off the escalators was looking at me chatting her up. Or the high-pressure approach when the shop assistant stands next to you and listens to your entire interaction.
You’ll find yourself in all sorts of awkward situations when you’re gaming, and so you have to learn to handle pressure. You have to believe in yourself and what you’re doing.
Maybe, your friends and family have been encouraging you to get out the house more and build a social life. But now that you are, they don’t like the way you’re changing – they don’t agree with your new PUA hobby. Yet again, you have to do what makes you happy. Believe!
You need to believe that the rejections will pay off: You’re tired of being lonely on weekends. You’re tired of jerking off. You want a girlfriend. You want your friends and family to respect you. Maybe, like me, you want to fuck 500 chicks before you die. Believe!
You need to believe that the next approach will go well, even though you’ve just had 6 straight rejections.
You must believe that you can be “that guy”. That you don’t need money, looks or fame in order to get laid. That you can get girls even though you’re short or overweight. That you don’t need to own a car in order to get a girlfriend. That you can get laid even though you’re living with your parents…
…because if you don’t believe in yourself, then why should anyone else? Why should she?
You have value to give to chicks, believe that you do. It’s called being confident, and girls can smell it from a mile away!
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